Name: Ashlea Gormley
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Award Category: Midwife Of The Year
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My Plea:
I was completely overwhelmed and very humbled to have been nominated and shortlisted for the Midwife of the Year award at the Butterfly awards. It is a testament to the families who have been through such a life changing experience to still take the time to acknowledge those around them and what they have done.
I have been working as a Bereavement Support Midwife for just over two years and during this time have supported families through some of the most life changing and difficult times in their lives. I often feel privileged that the families allow me to be part of their journey and often one of the few people to meet their precious little ones.
I see my role as helping to guide families through the minefield of pregnancy loss, whether that be through miscarriage, termination for fetal anomalies, stillbirth or neonatal death. Being able to reassure families that what they are thinking and feeling is normal as well as helping navigate through the journey, with all the information that they could need, to make the correct choices for them as a family. Also, ensuring the service we provide is ever changing and listening to the feedback and experiences of families to provide the highest quality of care.
Being able to support families to make memories with their baby is something I am extremely passionate about, with money raised by families we have cared for we are now able to provide more memory making opportunities than ever before which I know makes a massive difference to families moving forward
I can only thank the families that I have supported during their loss for allowing me to be a part of their story and hopefully helping them through their journey of pregnancy and baby loss.
What Others Have Said
Ashlea is one of the most kind, caring and compassionate people we have ever come across, and we will be forever grateful that we met her – she is an absolute gem and the NHS are so very lucky to call her one of their own.

People like Ashlea are a great comfort to people who have had to face these difficulties although I have not gone through this I know others who have who have found great comfort
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Thank you Ashlea, you made a huge difference to us and you really deserve this x x
Ashlea and the bereavement team do a fantastic job.
Patients song their praises on a daily basis.
Ashlea is kind and compassionate and always hears the patients story.
My husband and I were lucky enough to have Ashlea as part our pregnancy journey. She was hugely supportive when I found out at 30 weeks my baby was breach and my options for a natural birth were no longer possible. She supported us both through our journey and new birth plan of C Section. She was truly wonderful on the day of delivery and made the whole
process relaxed and a positive one. She’s a true asset to the NHS! She takes the time to listen, help and make you feel relaxed. 1st class who deserves this nomination without question.
A very worthy recipient for this cause
A very special person, doing a very special job.
For the amazing work you do in supporting those that need it most. Xx
We couldn’t agree more. Ashlea has been a complete rock for us in the past 9 weeks since our baby girl, Sophie, was stillborn. She was there when we received the news that Sophie had died and we were lucky enough to have her deliver our daughter as well. She has listened to me crying so many times and because of Ashlea (and the whole bereavement midwife team) the whole thing has been so much more bearable. We literally will not be able to thank Ashlea enough for the support and kindness she has given us.
Hi being a retired midwife I just wish we had midwives like Ashley then to support grieving mothers.
Ashlea is a very genuine person and has a heart full of warmth and gold.
She takes pride in her position and her patients. She’s an asset to the NHS, we are very fortunate to have her.
Amazing Ashlea what you do is truly amazing
Ashlea has such a caring & natural warmth to her job , which make people feel at ease in her company & deal with demanding situations that can push us all to our limits .
Fantastic member of a fabulous team! Thank you x
Ashlea is an incredible midwife and an amazing individual. She is compassionate, empathetic, caring, containing and hugely knowledgable. She is very committed to her work, a credit to the NHS and makes a profound positive difference to the families she works with.
A member of staff that has a true passion for her “job” and should be recognised for her dedication.
I First met Ashlea 2 years ago next week. She is an amazing young lady, she is wise beyond her years. She cared for our baby daughter Dottie who was born sleeping and she even helped and gave me the confidence to dress my baby, assuring me that I was doing fine. Ashlea asked out permission to take photos while we spent time with our daughter and now they are the only photos we will ever have, I cherish them so much. Ashlea then also visited us when I had my rainbow baby, which was so lovely of her. The NHS are so lucky to have lovely people like you Ashlea, one of a kind
Ashlea is probably the kindest and most thoughtful person I have ever met and goes above and beyond the requirements of her role on a daily basis. Nothing is too much trouble.
An extremely challenging job which Ashlea rises to and more.
Truly amazing ❤️❤️❤️
This woman is amazing.
Ashleas love and passion for this job in undeniable and truly inspiring. She deserves recognition for the incredible work she does for people in the darkest times.
Amazing lady xx
Helped a friend and his wife through what I can only imagine to be the worst experience in life when it really should have been the most exciting, starting a family bringing new life into the world. Without people like Ashlea my friends journey through their tough time would have been very dark. May Ashlea’s ray of light shine brightly to guide others to a brighter place.
Takes someone truest special to do your job!
Ashlea is so compassionate and hard working she loves every aspect of her work. For such a young person she has a lot to deal with but does it all in her stride. She totally deserves this award and is a credit to the team she works with.
Ashlea has always been a kind and caring girl with a big heart!
The service provider is extremely fortunate to have her on their team, I can only image the families under in her care are in a better place with her guidance…
I very worthy winner of the award!
Thank you for everything you do x
A lovely midwife who supports all of mother and baby needs.
Lovely gentle empathetic person x
Must be such a difficult role. One I’m sure you never ever thought you’d be having to do when you trained as a midwife. Well done. You’re obviously doing an amazing job!
I would like to vote for Ashley Gormley
I’ve watched Ashlea develop into the caring, compassionate and committed midwife she is today. Her strength of character, her morale compass and her private code of ethics makes her perfect for the role. She has engaged on a continual professional development plan and along with this challenging role, she is completing her masters.
Further to the above she has rallied friends and family round to participate in fundraising events to raise money to improve the environment in which families meet, love and greave for the loss they have had. Ashlea also has engaged family to knit/crochet garments for sleeping babies to meet their parents, and premature babies who require smaller garments. There is no end to the lengths she will go to ensure the needs of the parents she works with are met to highest standard.
She is completely devoted to the role she has undertaken and to the parents that have been entrusted with her care.
I wish Ashlea the very best for her future career and hope that her efforts, albeit she would not recognise herself in the high regards we all do, the best of luck in winning this award; it is totally deserved and would be humbly received. ❤
A very valuable role. Keep up the excellent work.
Well deserved recognition for someone who selflessly goes about her work and brings comfort and reassurance to those when they need it most.
Absolutely lovely person who has always been happy to give up her time for other people
Super human under very difficult situations
Congratulations on your nomination!
Her work with bereaved families is truly inspiring
Very committed to her work and gives all and more
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The most compassionate person I know
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Ashley is a beautiful person inside and out, her passion for helping people is inspiring and fully deserved the midwife of the year!
She’s is fantastic!!
Midwives with this level of compassion, care and commitment are hard to find.
An absolute beautiful lady .. through one of the most toughest times, you where truly so supportive and caring and cannot thank you enough xxx
You were amazing to my friends Joey & Chris ?
What an amazing kind and caring professional
Gets my vote!
Ashlea is so deserving of recognition. She is naturally a very caring person so suits this role perfectly.
She is knowledgeable, professional with a calming influence who very easily gains the confidence of those she is caring for.
Thank you Ashlea for doing a wonderful job!
Such a wonderful person.
You were incredibly supportive and helpful to my good friend Joey, and her husband Chris, during the most horrific moment of their lives. Thank you x
You were extremely helpful and a massive support to my good friend Joey, and her husband Chris, when going through such a horrific time of their lives. Thank you x
Incredible midwife, Ashlea was amazing through the birth of my second son. Very well deserved nomination xx
Such a kind, empathetic and all round beautiful human being!
Fantastic midwife ??
Compassionate and kind midwife helping bereaved parents at such a difficult time.
A dedicated, professional and caring midwife x
What an important role you do. I can only imagine what challenges you face daily and admire your empathy, professionalism and experience. May you long continue your wonderful work.
Good luck x
Ashlea is an amazingly kind hearted person, she goes about everything she does with passion.
Ashlea is compassionate and caring. In work and outside of work too.
There really isn’t a more deserving winner for this award.
Always caring and kind.
I fully support Ashley in her nomination. Such a devoted and caring woman!
A wonderful midwife, thank you for everything you do
Ashlea helped my sister through one of the hardest times in her life! I will be forever thankful. Thank you ❤️
Well done Ashlea so well deserved
What a glorious lady. Amazing and compassionate.
The world is a better place when you are supported in the difficult times of life by special caring people like Ashlea . You are a credit to your team .
Truly remarkable x
Well deserved and a truly selfless lady
Incredible midwife!
Ashlea totally deserves this! I don’t know how I would have got through the last year without your incredible support! Thank you xx
Ashlea totally deserves this nomination! I don’t know how I would have got through the last year without her incredible support! Xx
Good luck Ashley xx
Ashlea is a kind and caring Midwife who shows much compassion and is truly dedicated in her role. Thankyou for all you did for us Ashlea x
Good luck Ashlea. So deserving.
Good luck Ashlea. So well deserved.
Well done for this nomination Ashlea. Your hard work and commitment to families is outstanding. Wishing you lots of luck. Margaret
Good luck lovely you deserve it xxx
Keeping everything crossed that we can get you the recognition you deserve… We will never be able to say enough ‘thank-you’s’ for everything you have done and continue to do for us, but this award might just help 🙂 xx
Superstar ???
Beautiful person inside and out x
Beautiful person x
Well done xxx
Glad to see your making a difference to those who need it 🙂